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Are You Showing Up For Your Dreams?

March 23, 2010 by Amy Harrison 2 Comments

I went for coffee the other week with a friend and talk turned to his work.

“Are you still enjoying it?”

I asked and watched him shrug.

“I’m still showing up every day…which I guess is the same thing.”

This rattled in my head for a while. I’m all for showing up. Showing up repeatedly takes discipline, it’s hard work and sometimes the rewards aren’t always clear. The more I thought about it however, the more I wondered how many of us just “show up” without consciously thinking about why and what it is we’re doing.

I know I do it.

Every day I sit at my computer, I check emails, write articles, get in touch with clients, write content, day dream, scratch my head, work on new ideas, eat a Jaffa Cake, and drink an obscene amount of tea and coffee.

For the most part, I love what I do, (especially the tea and coffee) but sometimes I still show up for things which are completely unrelated to my vision of “success” and which I don’t always enjoy.

Sometimes there is a necessary reward. I am having my wisdom teeth out. Despite my dentist’s assurances, I don’t really believe that they just “pop” out. I believe it will be as fun as sucking on a sand covered sponge soaked in chilli sauce. However, a healthy mouth will make me happy.

But what about things we show up for where there is no real “happiness” reward? For example:

  1. Work we don’t enjoy
  2. Recreational activities we don’t enjoy
  3. People we don’t enjoy

There are a number of complex reasons why we show up for these things: apathy, peer pressure, perceived obligations, money needs etc.

These are not trivial things, but in a world where we’re only here once, neither are your dreams or your joy. Don’t underestimate the energy it takes to show up for these things, energy that might be used for something that will make you happy.

All I want you to do today is ask yourself:

“Are you showing up for your dreams, or are you just showing up?”

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About Amy Harrison

I am a copywriter, content-trainer, speaker and filmmaker teaching businesses how to avoid drab business content and write copy customers love to read. You can also find me hanging out and sharing content over on Google+.

Comments

  1. harrisonamy says

    April 1, 2010 at 4:26 pm

    Hi Misha,

    Thank you for your comment and I agree, most of the successful people I know are evry giving with their time and energy, but this is usually because the successful are in tune with what makes them happy, and they have more positive energy to go around.

    Giving does feel good, and giving without expecting any form of reward or return can be very enjoyable.

    What I would say though is that without the right motivation, i.e one that is aligned with making you happy, giving in and of itself will not necessarily make you happy.

    People who give their time or energy even though it makes them unhappy but because they feel they should, or out of obligation, or out of the desire to appear “unselfish” is rarely productive.

    Thank you for sparking some debate over this!

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  2. Misha Carron says

    March 27, 2010 at 9:00 pm

    Maybe Amy you are missing the trick…..

    Sometimes doing things for others and not yourself will bring the happiness you talk about.

    To eternally chase “happiness” or rewards for doing things could make you become very selfish and introverted with your time and energy.

    Giving feels good….trying to find the best in people and circumstances is the first step to release you from the “goals” culture. Lots of successful people I know are very giving in their attitude.

    Thats my 2c worth….

    M

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